The Law Of Attraction And Relationships
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...The Law of Attraction is an extremely powerful force which effects our lives, whether or not we are aware of how it is working....
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collectively go lower. |
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that we are born with |
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experience of a stranger |
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predestined challenges that |
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coming out of the blue and |
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How does this feel? |
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were agreed upon by our |
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having a piece of information |
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Other Matches Have you ever |
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ancestors before our birth. |
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that you needed? |
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had a friend or client stuck |
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in a 'victim vibration' who |
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Other Native groups believe |
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Have you ever been steered |
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seemed to attract abusive |
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that there are 'deals' made |
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away from making a mistake by |
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partners in their romantic or |
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with other souls before birth |
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a friend or stranger in the |
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business relationships? |
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to be part of their |
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right place at the right time? |
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enlightenment challenge here |
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Their vibration as a victim |
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on earth. |
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Can you recall what this felt |
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can be a match to a potential |
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like? |
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abuser. |
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Potential: When we are |
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Have you ever sensed your role |
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challenged, the experience has |
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in another person's |
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A second match to the 'victim |
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the potential to be a powerful |
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manifestation of an |
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vibration' is the rescuer. |
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healing or destructive force. |
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experience? |
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Rescuers, victims and abusers |
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If we rise to the challenge |
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You perhaps gave them |
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create what we know as the |
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and act out of integrity and |
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something, or did something |
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'victim' or 'drama' triangle. |
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grace, we heal both present |
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that felt right for you and |
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and past issues related to the |
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for them was an uncanny |
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These three roles vibrate |
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event. |
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coincidence. |
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matches to each other and |
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individuals often get stuck |
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If we fail the challenge, we |
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Have you ever found yourself |
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moving from point to point in |
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hurt ourselves and others |
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in the right place to provide |
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the triangle. |
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involved. |
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something important for |
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another person? |
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In one relationship they may |
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Free Choice: We all have free |
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be the victim. |
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choice. |
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Perhaps you felt compelled to |
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IN the next, they mat be the |
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This is why we cannot attract |
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talk to a stranger and you had |
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rescuer or the abuser. |
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a person to us who does not |
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the piece of information they |
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want to engage with us. |
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were looking for? |
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For example, many of the youth |
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I have worked with in custody |
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We choose whom we engage with |
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I call this interplay between |
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fall into this trap. |
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and we choose our actions. |
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individuals 'Dancing. |
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They are often violent to |
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We attract matches into our |
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' We dance with others during |
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'rescue' a friend or to avenge |
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lives. |
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every day of our lives. |
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a wrong. |
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It is our choice to engage |
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with them or not. |
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When we are open and willing, |
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When caught, they feel |
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We are responsible for our |
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we participate and assist in |
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victimized by police. |
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actions. |
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the manifestation of their |
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When sentenced to custody, |
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They are responsible for what |
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experience and others do the |
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they feel like a victim of the |
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they choose to do. |
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same for us. |
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justice system. |
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As we become more aware, we |
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Some of these experiences are |
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They talk about getting even |
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can also consider matches and |
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positive, and we feel like we |
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(offender role), blaming |
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experiences as powerful |
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are in the very flow of life. |
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others for their situation |
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information and feedback as to |
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(victim role) and wanting to |
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what we are vibrating. |
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Other experiences are more |
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stay with their boy or girl |
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challenging, or even negative, |
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friend to keep them from |
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We can also choose to engage |
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and can leave us questioning |
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getting into trouble (rescuer |
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or not engage, stay or leave. |
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how we came to attract such a |
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role). |
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negative or painful experience |
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We can also choose to use this |
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into our lives. |
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They continue to attract the |
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information to move ourselves |
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same three matches into their |
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to a different level of |
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Law of Attraction and |
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lives and custody becomes a |
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vibration. |
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Relationships As a therapist, |
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revolving door. |
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coach and individual, I have |
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Implications for Law Of |
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come to understand the Law of |
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There are other less obvious |
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Attraction Practitioners |
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Attraction as an extremely |
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variations of this triangle. |
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Working with Others Many of my |
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powerful force which effects |
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coaching and counseling |
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our lives, whether or not we |
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Chronically sick individuals, |
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clients have been engaged in |
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are aware of how it is working |
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very desperate or needy |
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some form of the drama |
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at any one time. |
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people, often vibrate matches |
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triangle (above). |
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for people who try to help |
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Simply put, what we give our |
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them or use them in some way. |
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I have found the Law of |
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focus, emotion, and attention, |
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Attraction tools to be very |
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we attract into our lives. |
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DRAMA TRIANGLE Vulnerability |
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helpful in teaching an |
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Most children and many adults |
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awareness of their emotions |
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Moving towards deliberate |
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live their lives unconscious |
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and how they are affecting |
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attraction requires an |
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of the law of attraction and |
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their experience. |
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awareness of our intention, |
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the many other forces at work |
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attention and emotional state. |
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in creating their experience. |
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They can learn that when they |
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are in a 'poor me,' or |
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Such people are unaware of the |
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'victim' vibration, they are |
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In a sense, we move from |
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effect of their attention, |
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going to attract matches and |
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subconsciously creating events |
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focus and emotions. |
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choose to engage or not. |
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in our lives to consciously |
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and deliberately affecting our |
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Their energy may be scattered |
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They also learn the importance |
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experience. |
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rather than focussed and their |
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of changing their vibration |
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emotions may be mixed and |
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and witnessing a change in the |
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When talking about the law of |
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reactive. |
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people they attract. |
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attraction in relationships, |
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several questions come up. |
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Such people are 'vulnerable' |
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By choosing a different |
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and can become unconscious |
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vibration, they become |
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These include: Can we attract |
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participants in the more |
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empowered and even begin to |
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a specific person into our |
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focussed and deliberate |
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heal! Implications for |
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lives? |
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manifestation of others. |
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Practitioners and Coaches For |
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law of attraction |
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Am I responsible did I attract |
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We know that most offenders |
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practitioners and coaches, we |
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this abuse from my colleague, |
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pick their victims. |
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put out the intention of |
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partner, friend, or family |
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assisting others and attract |
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member? |
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This is a fact. |
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such experiences to ourselves |
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They unconsciously or |
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in the form of clients. |
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How can I attract the |
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consciously match vulnerable |
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relationship I want? |
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children, adults, (banks etc. |
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We offer ourselves as |
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One of the issues these |
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'helpers' for individuals who |
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questions have in common is a |
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are choosing to manifest |
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search for where our |
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at an intuitive level. |
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events in their lives. |
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responsibility ends and |
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Younger children, the elderly, |
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another person's begins. |
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or adults with disabilities |
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This experience is often very |
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are often chosen for this |
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intuitive and joyful. |
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Matching (Picking our |
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reason. |
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Partners) Everyone that you |
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We feel like we are in the |
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attract into our lives and |
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Children, and some adults are |
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flow of life. |
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engage with, are a match to |
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then vulnerable to become part |
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Have you also experienced this |
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something that you are |
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of a more deliberate plan and |
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intention bubbling over to |
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vibrating at either a |
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action by someone with greater |
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experiences outside of you |
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conscious or subconscious |
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intention, emotion and focus. |
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practice as well? |
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level. |
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In addition, there are |
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At times, we will attract |
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If we want to know what you |
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individuals who use these same |
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people who will want to |
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are vibrating, look at who you |
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laws of attraction to manifest |
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elevate us to heroes and |
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are attracting. |
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power for themselves, or harm |
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rescuers. |
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to others. |
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It is a perfect match! There |
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They will say things like "no |
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are different kinds of matches |
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They believe they are right, |
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one understands me but you. " |
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to our vibrations. |
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entitled, or are unconsciously |
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driven to such experiences. |
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"Without you I would be lost…. |
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The most obvious is when we |
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get a similar match. |
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In some cases their focus is |
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They want direct advice for |
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collective and extremely |
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you to make the decisions. |
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Ideally, we want to feel |
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powerful. |
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empowered, optimistic and |
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This however, does not |
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joyful and attract other |
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Terrorists and other fear |
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empower, it keeps them in |
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empowered and optimistic |
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based organizations are |
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their comfortable 'victim' |
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people to us in all aspects of |
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examples of this dynamic. |
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role. |
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our life. |
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Free Choice I once had a very |
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Counselors and coaches may |
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When this happens, there is a |
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amazing conversation with a |
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become seduced into the role |
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sharing and connection that |
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Native teacher about the three |
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of rescuer and join the client |
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feels wonderful. |
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concepts of destiny, |
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in the drama triangle. |
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potential, and free choice. |
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It is a perfect match! When |
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How might this impact our |
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feeling down, (low vibration), |
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To the best of my |
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lives outside of the office? |
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you may attract a friend who |
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recollection, this is how he |
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calls to complain about all |
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defined these concepts. |
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In Closing As law of |
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the things they are down about. |
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attraction practitioners and |
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Destiny: Is an opportunity to |
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coaches, we can share powerful |
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fulfill a life's purpose. |
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information and tools to |
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In this case, our low |
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empower others to make their |
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vibration is attracting |
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It is a predetermined |
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own decisions and assume a new |
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someone of similar vibration. |
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circumstance that will |
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kind of responsibility in |
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manifest at some point in life. |
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their relationships. |
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We will often engage with the |
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person and stay at that low |
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vibration or perhaps |
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Some Native groups believe |
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attract
lives
attraction
vibration
matches
engage
experience
people
choose
triangle
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